This is my first post...so if U are reading this.....* A BIG HUG*
I have recently cried out to people around me that I have got this itch!!!
Yeah ITCH! *rolling eyes*
Living in Lagos, U can't walk up to the next guy and try getting him to bed and not be seen as a slut!
So how does a girl get some?
Don't get me wrong...there's loads and loads of offerings...
But girl *wink* U know what I mean, when I say...NAH!!!
We want some but not ANY!
So go lay ur goose egg somewhere else..LOSER!
Back to my gist abeg...
Talked to three girl friends and they all had different opinions (and here peeps..I am QUOTING)!!:
FRIEND 1: "Laff, I feel you...Find someone to f*** now"
FRIEND 2: "I am with U on that ...been looking for..but casual sex ain't worth the acrobat..so I stay without"
FRIEND 3: "Only? There are enough randy sideways men in Naija..."
Their responses made me think..really think...are 9ja girls now giving up?
Have we resigned ourselves to the recent crop of men who just don't bother to woo us anymore?
The married men who take us to a movie, buy us food and drinks (which they will participate in), and probably get in a few thousands worth of itty bitty and then expect us to lay down with our legs flying around for them to sow their seeds and go back home to their wives?
The single guys who think they are doing you a favor by agreeing to come around..." Hey, guess what I will be coming around to yours...I have been horny.." Yes peeps ..seriously..that was a real life conversation!!!!!
Where has the romance gone?
That feeling of desire, that build up, that anticipation to just see him again..just to talk, hold his hands, know him, please him (not by sex!!)?!
I miss that...
I truly do...
I have an ITCH!!!!..a SERIOUS ITCH!!!